Not everybody wants to be treated in the same way. May customs are not the same or the direct opposite between some cultures. That should tell you something.

Turn the other check is true in the sense not to return with violence and that the violence release helps the other stop its agression.

However stopping that person by speaking, communicating. Is far more effective.

And the only way is physical violence sometimes as to have short suffering to prevent long dragged out conflict with unforeseen consequences.